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Navigate conflict.
Achieve your potential.
Create quality relationships.

Conflict Coach.  Mediator.  Trainer.  

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Meet Your Conflict Resolution Specialist

With over 25 years of experience as a Conflict Resolution Expert, Julie Cobalt specializes in Conflict Coaching, Mediation, and Conflict Resolution Training.

So if you are struggling with relationship issues, Julie can help you work through conflict, confusion, or paralysis to restore harmony and understanding.

Julie’s approach to Conflict Coaching, Mediation and Training integrates optimism and compassion with strategic resolution techniques to inspire you to realize your own potential to resolve conflict and create the types of relationships you value and desire. Her tailored strategies and compassionate guidance have consistently led to positive outcomes.

Why Choose Julie?

She Understands

Living with unresolved or lingering conflict and negative emotions towards others takes a toll on your quality of life. Having experienced this in her personal life, Julie understands the profound value of helping clients learn how to communicate effectively and work through these obstacles to create true repair, meaningful closure and lasting connection with others.

Diverse & Vast Background

Julie’s personal and professional background spans multiple disciplines that bring a wealth of knowledge and experience to every situation. No matter how challenging the conflict may seem, Julie’s tenacity, creativity, and communication skills set her apart from the field. Her adaptability and open mindedness allow her to tackle and overcome obstacles with ease.

Trusted & Proven Expertise

From personal disputes to large organizational conflicts, as a seasoned Conflict Coach, Mediation Specialist, and Conflict Resolution Trainer, Julie brings decades of experience and successful resolution to seemingly intractable situations. Julie has a proven track record of transforming conflict into opportunities for growth and understanding.

Credentials & Qualifications

Years Resolving Conflict
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Successful Mediations
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Worldwide Trainings
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EDUCATOR

Design and implement educational programs locally, nationally and internationally on conflict resolution, introductory and advanced mediation, divorce mediation, large group facilitation, managing conflict in the workplace, constructive feedback, managing high conflict personalities, intercultural and cross-cultural communication, and effective communication.

Adjunct Professor of Law    |   Thomas Jefferson School of Law

2004–2014

Trainer   |   National Conflict Resolution Center, Family Resolution Institute

2000–2018

Guest Lecturer   |   University of San Diego, San Diego State University, University of California San Diego

2015–2018

MEDIATOR

Facilitate and seek reconciliation of damaged relationships, explore alternatives to litigation, and provide a neutral forum for adversaries to achieve a mutually agreeable resolution to their conflict.

West Coast Resolution Group

2016–Present

National Conflict Resolution Center

1998–Present

San Diego Superior Court

1998–2008

San Diego City Attorney, Criminal Division Dispute Resolution Office, Victim Offender Program

1998–2002

EVALUATOR

Provide feedback and performance evaluation for beginning mediators as part of on-going continuing education and development programs.

National Conflict Resolution Center

2002–2018

Thomas Jefferson School of Law

2004–2014

COACH

Guide and support clients to understand and manage their emotions, communicate more effectively, and utilize tailored strategies for resolving disputes. Educate and empower clients to explore their feelings and motivations, gain insights into conflict dynamics, and build the skills necessary for constructive conflict resolution.

Julie Cobalt Conflict Coach

2020–Present

ATTORNEY

Private civil law practice litigating small claims appeals to San Diego Superior Court including, but not limited to, real estate, personal injury, property, business, landlord/tenant, and contract matters.

Law Offices of Julie D. Cobalt

1998–2018

ARBITRATOR

Conducted evidentiary hearings, ruled on procedural questions and rendered decisions in cases involving the right to retain public housing benefits.

San Diego Housing Commission

1999–2004

San Diego Housing Authority

1999–2004

Juris Doctor | Law

California Western School of Law

1997

California Bar Admission

1998

Masters of Arts | German & International Policy Studies

Middlebury Institute for International Studies at Monterey, summa cum laude

1991

Bachelors of Arts | German

Hamline University, magna cum laude

1989

Licenses & Certifications

High Conflict Mediation Training    |   High Conflict Institute

2015

Certified Life Coach    |   Life Purpose Institute

2022

Certified Parent Coach    |   The Jai Institute for Parenting

2023

Grief Coach    |   Institute for Life Coach Training

2023

Certified English Language Teacher to Adults    |   International House World Organization

2017

Languages

English, native

Spanish, conversational

German, conversational

Dutch, conversational

Presentations & Workshops

Winning Cases, Losing Yourself? Rethinking Success and Well-Being   |   MCLE Presenter   |   West Coast Resolution Group

2025

The Double-Edged Sword of Lawyering: How Conflict Simultaneously Benefits and Burdens Us   |   MCLE Presenter   |   West Coast Resolution Group

2024

What They Didn’t Tell You About Being a Lawyer: Overcoming Burnout and Exhaustion   |   MCLE Presenter   |   West Coast Resolution Group

2023

The Productivity Addiction: Is Burnout the Price of Success?   |   Presenter   |   San Diego Lawyer’s Club

2023

Emotional Regulation Tools During Divorce   |   Presenter   |   Second Saturday San Diego

2024–2025

Navigating Separation and Divorce: Monthly Workshop Series   |   Presenter   |   San Diego & Dubai

2022–present

Memberships

San Diego Bar Association

Lawyers Club    |   Life and Law Committee

San Diego Family Law Association

Professional Involvement

Crawford Academy Law Mentorship

Community Involvement

Roosevelt International Middle School Site Governance Team

Conflict Resolution Services

Julie's conflict coaching and mediation services cover a range of focuses, from workplace disputes, to parenting and more.

Client Testimonials

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Benefits of Conflict Coaching and Mediation

Confidence & Clarity

Build lasting relationships based on mutual respect and understanding with tailored conflict resolution strategies.

Improved Communication

Master the art of communication to express yourself clearly and effectively in any situation.

Stronger Relationships

Gain the tools to peacefully resolve disputes and turn conflicts into opportunities for growth.

Personal Fulfillment

Achieve a more fulfilling personal life by overcoming obstacles and engaging in meaningful interactions.

Enhanced Productivity

Foster a collaborative team environment with improved conflict management, boosting overall productivity.

Conflict Resolution Skills

Learn negotiation techniques that ensure you achieve favorable outcomes while maintaining positive relationships.

Explore Julie's Blog

Expert articles offering strategies, insights, and tips for effective communication. Essential mediation techniques and conflict resolution advice for all settings, from workplace disputes to family mediation.

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